Sunday, April 8, 2007

First 60 Seconds

What you say or do in the First sixty seconds will
determine many times whether or not a woman will
respond to you. All you have to do is keep the woman's
unconscious attention focused directly on you (and off
everyone else) in a positive manner for a total of one
minute from the time you meet her. This really works, you
must project something positive and appealing. Come
across very humorous and very honest and you will do
very well. Some of the best approaches in the first 60
seconds are the following:
1) Ask for help. This is one of the best. You can go up to a
woman and ask her just about anything. Woman love to be
helpful. You can ask her questions about directions,
cooking, grocery shopping, and even asking her to help
you pick out a gift for your mother.
2) An honest approach. Just go up to her and tell her she's
pretty and that you would like to meet her. Honesty is the
best policy. A woman appreciates a man who is honest.
3) One of the best approaches is the humorous approach.
Just go up to a girl and smile and start laughing and joking
about anything, a funny movie or book etc.
This worked for me with a good−looking girl named
Linda. Let me tell you about Linda. You can use the same
technique. I went to a singles dance one Friday night by
myself and was hoping to meet some girls. I got there
about eight thirty and the First thing I did was order a drink
and stand against the wall watching the girls. It's amazing
how many of us guys make a career of standing up against
the wall. I noticed Linda about two hours later. She was
sitting at a table with a girl I knew, just a friend of mine. I
kept staring at Linda but she kept turning her head away. I
thought she must be a snob because she didn't even smile
when she looked up at me.
Finally the other girl waved me over and asked me to sit
down a second, I, being my friendly self, sat down but
didn't know what to say. I sat there for nearly 10 minutes
not saying a word. I was aware of Linda the whole time
because she smelled so good and was so pretty. She was a
brunette and had the most beautiful eyes that I had ever
seen. She also had long beautiful hair and I just love long
hair.
Jan, the other girl I knew, was asked to dance and I was
left sitting alone with Linda. I was sitting in stunned
silence when I decided to say something. I blurted out, "I
wonder if the wall fell down yet, I was holding it up so
long." I looked over at the wall and ran over and pretended
to hold it up again. Linda laughed a little and she seemed
to become friendlier. We even danced a few times.
Before they left that night I became bold and asked for
Linda's phone number. She told me that she just moved
and didn't have a phone but could she have mine. I gave
her my phone number but I never expected her to call
because I felt she was politely turning me down by not
giving me her phone number.
To my shock she called me a few days later. We made a
date and went out the following week. We had a hell of a
good time. Linda and I went together about six months and
it was one of the best periods of my life.
I asked Linda one time why she even talked to me that
night and why she called me. She told me something that
I’ll remember for a long time and it helped me meet dozens
of pretty girls after that. She looked at me and said, "You
opened your mouth." Just because I said something
humorous I appealed to her. I know I could never appeal to
her on my looks alone. Linda was about 10 years younger
than me and extremely soy. Guys everywhere used to stare
at her when I took her out.
Just open your mouth, very good advice. Say something
and hold her interest for at least 60 seconds. You will have
50% of the battle won. My cousin David discovered a very
unique method of meeting women and he shared it with
me. He met over 100 girls with this method. Use it and you
will be surprised. Let David tell you about it.
David
− "I discovered this quite by accident. I worked for a toy
manufacturer. We were trying to sell a new line of stuffed
animals that talked. I had an appointment out of town
one−day. To demonstrate the bear, I had a room at the
Holiday Inn and was testing the bear in my room and had
trouble getting it to work, I decided I would be more
relaxed if I had a drink, So I went down to the bar with the
teddy bear.
I sat at a corner table trying to figure out why the teddy
bear wouldn't talk. I was nearly frantic when I heard a soft
voice asking me what I had in my hands and how cute it
was. I looked up and saw one of the prettiest girls I had
ever seen. She sat down and asked to see the bear. I gave
her the bear and she had it talking in a minute. I had the
batteries in wrong. Many girls came over that night and
asked to see the bear. I made friends with a lot of them and
they said that they would go out with me the next time I
was in town.
I bring unusual stuffed animals anytime I go to a bar or
restaurant now. Wayne and I met twelve girls one night in
a restaurant we brought some stuffed dogs in and set them
on the table. I met over 100 girls just by bringing some
kind of unusual toy with me in a restaurant or bar."
Remember girls like a guy who is different or unique. Try
bringing a cute stuffed animal in a bar or restaurant some
night and see how many girls come over and start a
conversation with you. You can certainly hold their interest
for 60 seconds. You can even tell them it's a gift for your
little niece or nephew. This is one of the best methods for
meeting a woman and holding her interest that I know of.

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"D" Technique

The "D" technique, when employed correctly, is so
powerful it should be shared with only those men who can
use it correctly and wisely. The "D" technique, put simply,
is to keep her dangling. Do not even attempt any sexual
advances to a woman until at least the 7th or 8th time you
date her, even longer if you can hold out. Don't laugh or
scoff at the simplicity of this. It works, it works like crazy.
Let me tell you of my own experiences and how the "D"
technique literally got dozens of women to chase me and
fall in love with me. You can prove the power of the "D"
technique to yourself the same way that I did.
I discovered the "D" technique quite by accident. I had
been meeting various women through personal ads. I
would arrange to meet them for coffee dates and a little
conversation. 90% of them would agree to go out with me
on a First date but I could never get a second date with
them. I was doing something wrong and had to find out
what. I thought over what I did and figured that maybe I
was coming on too strong on the first date. I decided to
develop an uncaring altitude about sex. On my next date I
would act like she didn't turn me on at all.
A girl named Shirley answered one of my ads. She sent me
a letter with her phone number so I called her and made a
date for a cup of coffee. I met her and we both agreed to go
out that same evening for a few drinks and do some
dancing. I was completely free of worry that night. I had a
good lime and made no sexual passes at all. I acted just as
if I was out with a female friend.

When I took Shirley home, I walked to her door, gave her
a light kiss and left. She looked surprised and bewildered. I
dated Shirley six or seven times before she practically
attacked me one night in her apartment. By that time she
was madly in love with me because I was different thin any
other guy she dated. I presented a complete challenge. If a
woman thinks that she doesn't appeal to you she will try
anything to prove to you that she is appealing.
I always use the "D" technique. In the six months after I
dated Shirley I met thirty other women and tried the "D"
technique on every one of them. On each date I acted very
nonchalant and indifferent as far as sexual contact was
concerned. Every one of these women fell for me. They
called me night and day trying to get me interested in
them. They were trying to seduce me instead of the other
way around. This is dynamite and really works. Why does
it work?
Because you're a challenge
.
Do you always wonder why women fall for guys they
cannot seem to hold on to? Because the "D" technique is
used over and over again. It can be used for other areas
besides sex.
You can dangle a woman as far as interest is concerned
also. Do not call her every night — keep her guessing
about how you feel. Let her be aware that you date other
women. This will hold her interest. You will always be a
challenge and women love a challenge.
I've got to tell you about Doug. Doug is in his early 30's,
divorced and a little overweight. But he has dozens of
beautiful women chasing him night and day. It wasn't
always that way. I'm going to let Doug tell you exactly
what he told me.
Doug
− "I was a hopeless failure with women for years. I met
Wayne in a singles club, "Parents Without Partners". We
talked quite a while and I told him about my trouble with
women. He advised me to start being more relaxed around
women and to stop being so eager for sex when I took than
out. I read all the books about how liberated women were
and I figured that they were all eager for sex. It was easy to
meet women in PWP (Parents Without Partners) because
there was about two women for every guy. I could usually
get the First date with a girl but none of then) would go out
with me a second time. I knew I was doing something
wrong. I told Wayne all this and he told me about the "D"
technique.
What did I have to lose? I decided to try it. I asked a girl
named Barbara out. Even though it was easy to meet
women in PWP the really good looking ones would not go
out with me. I would settle for the less attractive women.
Barbara was nice but average (I know I should have judged
women by their personalities and not looks but at that time
I had never dated a beautiful woman and I dreamed about
it all the time).
When I went out with Barbara I acted like a completely
different person. Wayne said the dangling technique was to
keep the girl dangling as long as possible and not to make
any sexual advances. Just have a good time.
Barbara and I did have a good time. It was nice because
there was no tension in the air for me to make a move
sexually. We went bowling and I treated her just like a
friend, not a sexual conquest. I dated Barbara seven times
before I even tried anything sexual at all (other than an
occasional kiss). By that time Barbara was ready to attack
me. She even asked me why I didn't find her attractive.
I dated three or four other women while I was dating
Barbara and I treated them all the same. I tried no sexual
advances on any of them.
Soon very good−looking women were approaching roe at
the PWP meetings and dances. They were coming up to me
and introducing themselves. Some of my buddies told me
that I was getting a reputation as a lady−killer. Evidently
some of the women were talking.
I must have dated over 100 women in PWP in that year.
Some of the girls I dated were so sexy and appealing it was
hard for me to hold back but the wait was worth it. The sex
I did have was exciting and wonderful. After dangling
these women for so long they went out of their way to
please me.
Now that I've dated some of the most beautiful women
around, all women appeal to me. I date beautiful women as
well as average looking women. I can date practically any
woman I want.
In the last year my reputation has become legion. Women
approach me all the time wanting to dance and go out with
me. I am the first guy women want to meet when they join
PWP. Other guys are jealous and envious of me. I owe it
all to the "D" technique. Thanks Wayne."
Doug is one of the many guys using the "D" technique
successfully. You can do the same. You've got to adopt the
attitude of dating women in a non−sexual way early in the
dating game. You will be a challenge to them. They will
wonder if they are appealing and why you don't find them
attractive. This will make you very attractive to them and
they will go to any lengths to seduce you. By the 6th or 7th
date you will drive these women crazy wondering why you
are not making a sexual advance. They will be wild for
your body by this time.
Besides sex you should also let a woman dangle for many
other reasons. No woman likes a doormat for a boyfriend,
be more of a challenge. Always leave some doubt about
how you feel about her. Treat her nice and tender but don't
call her every night and day. Tell her you love her but don't
let her think the sun rises and shines on her. Women will
respect and love you if you're more of a challenge and a
mystery. I would like to hear more from you on the results
you obtain using the "D" technique.