What you say or do in the First sixty seconds will
determine many times whether or not a woman will
respond to you. All you have to do is keep the woman's
unconscious attention focused directly on you (and off
everyone else) in a positive manner for a total of one
minute from the time you meet her. This really works, you
must project something positive and appealing. Come
across very humorous and very honest and you will do
very well. Some of the best approaches in the first 60
seconds are the following:
1) Ask for help. This is one of the best. You can go up to a
woman and ask her just about anything. Woman love to be
helpful. You can ask her questions about directions,
cooking, grocery shopping, and even asking her to help
you pick out a gift for your mother.
2) An honest approach. Just go up to her and tell her she's
pretty and that you would like to meet her. Honesty is the
best policy. A woman appreciates a man who is honest.
3) One of the best approaches is the humorous approach.
Just go up to a girl and smile and start laughing and joking
about anything, a funny movie or book etc.
This worked for me with a good−looking girl named
Linda. Let me tell you about Linda. You can use the same
technique. I went to a singles dance one Friday night by
myself and was hoping to meet some girls. I got there
about eight thirty and the First thing I did was order a drink
and stand against the wall watching the girls. It's amazing
how many of us guys make a career of standing up against
the wall. I noticed Linda about two hours later. She was
sitting at a table with a girl I knew, just a friend of mine. I
kept staring at Linda but she kept turning her head away. I
thought she must be a snob because she didn't even smile
when she looked up at me.
Finally the other girl waved me over and asked me to sit
down a second, I, being my friendly self, sat down but
didn't know what to say. I sat there for nearly 10 minutes
not saying a word. I was aware of Linda the whole time
because she smelled so good and was so pretty. She was a
brunette and had the most beautiful eyes that I had ever
seen. She also had long beautiful hair and I just love long
hair.
Jan, the other girl I knew, was asked to dance and I was
left sitting alone with Linda. I was sitting in stunned
silence when I decided to say something. I blurted out, "I
wonder if the wall fell down yet, I was holding it up so
long." I looked over at the wall and ran over and pretended
to hold it up again. Linda laughed a little and she seemed
to become friendlier. We even danced a few times.
Before they left that night I became bold and asked for
Linda's phone number. She told me that she just moved
and didn't have a phone but could she have mine. I gave
her my phone number but I never expected her to call
because I felt she was politely turning me down by not
giving me her phone number.
To my shock she called me a few days later. We made a
date and went out the following week. We had a hell of a
good time. Linda and I went together about six months and
it was one of the best periods of my life.
I asked Linda one time why she even talked to me that
night and why she called me. She told me something that
I’ll remember for a long time and it helped me meet dozens
of pretty girls after that. She looked at me and said, "You
opened your mouth." Just because I said something
humorous I appealed to her. I know I could never appeal to
her on my looks alone. Linda was about 10 years younger
than me and extremely soy. Guys everywhere used to stare
at her when I took her out.
Just open your mouth, very good advice. Say something
and hold her interest for at least 60 seconds. You will have
50% of the battle won. My cousin David discovered a very
unique method of meeting women and he shared it with
me. He met over 100 girls with this method. Use it and you
will be surprised. Let David tell you about it.
David
− "I discovered this quite by accident. I worked for a toy
manufacturer. We were trying to sell a new line of stuffed
animals that talked. I had an appointment out of town
one−day. To demonstrate the bear, I had a room at the
Holiday Inn and was testing the bear in my room and had
trouble getting it to work, I decided I would be more
relaxed if I had a drink, So I went down to the bar with the
teddy bear.
I sat at a corner table trying to figure out why the teddy
bear wouldn't talk. I was nearly frantic when I heard a soft
voice asking me what I had in my hands and how cute it
was. I looked up and saw one of the prettiest girls I had
ever seen. She sat down and asked to see the bear. I gave
her the bear and she had it talking in a minute. I had the
batteries in wrong. Many girls came over that night and
asked to see the bear. I made friends with a lot of them and
they said that they would go out with me the next time I
was in town.
I bring unusual stuffed animals anytime I go to a bar or
restaurant now. Wayne and I met twelve girls one night in
a restaurant we brought some stuffed dogs in and set them
on the table. I met over 100 girls just by bringing some
kind of unusual toy with me in a restaurant or bar."
Remember girls like a guy who is different or unique. Try
bringing a cute stuffed animal in a bar or restaurant some
night and see how many girls come over and start a
conversation with you. You can certainly hold their interest
for 60 seconds. You can even tell them it's a gift for your
little niece or nephew. This is one of the best methods for
meeting a woman and holding her interest that I know of.
see you in other time :) ..
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